Gifted Children - How To 'Be' Around Them
Part 2

So how do you "be" around them?

In the pregnancy and infancy years, it will be like a form of telepathy between the mother and child in particular. The father needs to be informed so he to can join in this process. It will validate for each then and no one feels excluded. In the time before talking and walking this may be evident as you waking in the small hours and they waking with you. Or the reverse as if you are being called to them, without the screaming associated with the night feeds or changes. You may change other things on a strong knowing, like food stuffs bought for the little one, that which is being communicated to you.

In this stage they look into your soul with love. They will also look past you as they can see others on the higher side you cannot, though you will have a knowing that they are doing this. It is worth noting this, as when they do talk and describe someone you cannot see, it is not a shock in any way to you. It may be a relative they have not known in their short life but you do. It may well be their guide, or their angel, a playmate in the form of a spirit child. It is to them and should be talked of as you would ask them to describe any other visitor. That allows them to be validated in who they are, and you may well get confirmation at another point as to what, or who, and therefore you learn to.

Make it fun, a game. If there is one they can see and you cannot which they do not like, then again make it a game in the process of asking that one to go. They are in no danger, and your reaction should not show this in any way. These are more sensitive to moods than most and will pick up on your angst if you allow it to show. Bring in light beings like angels to show the other one the door, and then say there you go. You are learning to.

At this time you may wish to bring a process to help them be in their own space. A game for you both. Ask if they can see themselves surrounded by a bubble of their favourite colour which is filled with sunlight. Which has a tail going into the earth. A cleansing and grounding process. As the energies they are, are of a higher sensitivity it helps them settle into the growing process. Make it fun. Do it before you go out on errands of any nature. Or to busy places which may stress you in some way. Made fun it validates your change in mood to them. It also brings in the loving boundary process, as in when we talk about these things and when we do not. Rather than later having the waste of energy around a punishment programme and the quizzical looks you get, saying, "Well you know it too."

Life happens to all of us and with these little ones you can explain your happiness, sorrows and fears. Done in such a way as to let them be themselves. It validates their existence and who you are. Again this is helping with the boundary process. We know that not all we meet are going to share in our beliefs, this brings in the respect to others feelings. This is not to dampen their gifts in any way as they will find a most natural way to help a situation of any description. Let them be the love they are, you will be the more love for it.

Schooling may be a time when you may have to question a bit more. As it has been recognised that they can and do learn in a different way to the systems rigidity. If you do this in a matter of fact or fun way you will learn as to why they are excelling or not as the case is. If they are in front because the method suits, or behind as they are already in front and boredom is the case. Or a mind set that learns in a way that the school or teachers do not recognise. Ask what they see, sense or hear in relation to a subject, why it is that way and what can help to change it.

This will be the way in the early schooling years, the mid to late teens will have a direction which will have been shown as a thread through out. This will be the direction of where and how with their work and purpose here. In your connection to them and those they will have around them. The diet will be in the most decided by them and will probably be of a more natural meat free type, and fast foods and those with strong additives avoided, though you may have to watch in around that in early years. Not necessarily an allergy but reaction as in mood change.

If you allow yourself to be, then they will "be" also. They are children and will enjoy that part to. Which may some times seem a bit odd. But allow and be that with them , recognising where they are, helps them see where you are, a stronger bond could not be.

Books that give insight are:

Indigo Children, - http://www.indigochild.com
Crystal Children - Doreen Virtue PhD and Raising Psychic Children - J Twyman.

The Indigo Children gives the behaviour and schools in the USA and UK where the recognition works for the child.

The Crystal Children how and why these are here and to recognise them Raising Psychic Children, profound insight to how to "be" with them.

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